The Camino Gives You What You Need

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Yesterday I arrived in Spain to begin my volunteer stint as a hospitalera at the San Anton Monastery.  It was a long and arduous drive taking two days and when we arrived my fellow hospitalero, gave me a quick rundown of how everything works.

As it was late afternoon there seemed to be very few pilgrims coming by.  A few people stopped and looked at the ruins but none was interested in staying the night.

Eventually close to 7pm, the hospitalero announced that he was going or a night out on the town, as it seemed unlikely that we would be hosting any pilgrims.

I was enjoying the early evening ambience around the monastery, feeling slightly inadequate.  First day on the job and no pilgrims!  My partner, who stayed with me overnight before beginning the Camino today, suggested that we make ourselves dinner, have a cold shower, and retire early to bed to recover from the long drive.

Honestly speaking, there was more to my feelings of inadequacy than I was letting on.  I felt that my “first day on the job” was reflecting what was happening in my life now.

Starting my own business has required great fortitude, resilience, patience, and business acumen.  I would say the skill I lack the most is patience.  Currently I have experienced a fair amount of anxiety around client acquisition and while I have done everything, I am capable of doing I now await for the seeds to take root, so to speak.

I asked my partner if this was going to be a week without pilgrims.  Have my business issues followed me to the Camino and is this a further test?

I was reassured that the pilgrims would come.  “Don’t worry, the ones who want to stay here will come when they are ready.”

After hearing this, I felt a strong sense and reminder just to be.  Not to worry about doing, and making, and planning and busy-ness, but just to be.  I realised that if not one pilgrim decided to stay over this coming week, I am still exactly, where I need to be.

I took a moment to breathe deeply, recommit to just being and enjoy the moment.

Through the gorgeous gateway came a local man on a bike looking for the hospitalero.  Even with poor Spanish, I understood that he lives locally, hails originally from Madrid, and likes to pop into the Albergue and visit with the volunteers and pilgrims.  I mentioned that there were no pilgrims, but offered him a glass of wine.  We had just poured a glass when three travel weary pilgrims ambled through the gigantic stone entrance.

“We are not too late are we?  Do you still have available beds for us?” they asked concerned.  I quickly evaluated them and joked that as long as they were not the drunken and disorderly types, they were welcome to stay.

They seemed incredulous that they were the first guests and could not understand why the Albergue was not full.  After I showed them to their beds and discussed dinnertime with them, I left them to freshen up and perform their pilgrim chores.

We were just about to start cooking when another two bedraggled pilgrims came in dragging carts behind them.  They were also surprised that there was space available.

It was time to spring into action and start preparing a meal for seven people by candle light.  My partner and I worked efficiently in unity and in no time all the pilgrims had freshened up under the cold shower and dinner was on the table.

At first, I wondered if we should not try to track down the other hospitalero but then I realised that all was well, this was a small challenge for me to deal with.

Honestly, I felt so blessed with my first pilgrim dinner with my first pilgrims.  As we started eating, I shared my joy with them and it was a delightful evening of fellowship, friendship, great food and some fine guitar playing and singing.

The first group of three had only met on the day, in typical Camino fashion.  The Awesome Soulful Austin from the US, newly graduated Anastasia from Germany and young school graduate Dom from Lithuania who walked 80km the previous day.

The second couple were Russ from England and his German partner Sylvia.  They have been walking since April, have completed two Caminos this year, and are currently walking back to Frankfurt in Germany.

I came to Spain with the intention to offer service through love.  I am cognisant of the incredible love I received from numerous angels as I walked last year and I hope to give back a small piece of what I received.

The evening filled with love and laughter as people shared their stories, their challenges, and triumphs.  We each recognised ourselves in one another and simply delighted in being.

Before I fell asleep I realised it is true, the Camino does give us what we need.

I was in need of reassurance that if I plant the right seeds in my business they will grow, that the people I meant to work with will come, and that I will be able to serve through love in my work.

I realised that the five people who arrived last night were the perfect match for my first day on the job.  During the day, other people had popped in and in my “neediness” to have pilgrims I wanted to convince them to stay but they were not the right fit for me.

How often do we pursue relationships in life or business that we know we should not?  We come from a certain place of neediness or wanting something and often these relationships are fraught with stress, strife etc.  There is not a natural ease, a state of being where both parties mutually benefit from the relationship.

So, that was my first day “on the job” and already the Camino has provided me with a powerful lesson and reminder: Angela, allow yourself to be, don’t try to force something to happen because you are desperate (or think you are!) or in a place of neediness.  Trust that if you have planted the seeds and continue to nurture them, that in their season they shall flourish and produce a good harvest.

All is well right now although I may not always see that right now!

Perhaps this is the only lesson I came to Spain to learn, perhaps not.  I do however continue to water the seeds of intention to serve with love each day.

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Rebekah - 4 years ago

So wonderful to have you serve at San Anton, Angela! You are in good hands there… it is a relaxed, laid-back place that exists by Providence. You are in the right place at the right time, apparently.

I will do my best to come and visit this week, or at least on 1 August!
Thank you for making the long trip. San Anton will not disappoint you.

Rebekah

    Angela Barnard - 4 years ago

    Thank you Rebekah. It has been a wonderful experience and I am even adapting to the “mad” German! Here I thought I had left them all behind! lol.
    I hope we will get to meet you before we go back. Simply to make you coffee, give you a HUGE hug and say THANK YOU for the opportunity. We will be leaving really early on Saturday morning. I will fetch Diana from Sahagun on Friday morning.
    Angie

Karen - 4 years ago

Needy? I think not ; anticipatory but of course! You receiving pilgrims “knit” them together with your generous heart! In my imagination, I wonder if the location lends itself to a “starry night sky” Also wonder what you cooked on (sans electricity) and where the food supply came from. Is this a donotivo? You now have a water source? I Lao understood that a restraant owner would drop off meals. Did your town guest stay overnight? Are the “gates” unlocked all night? Have. A wonderful experience!

    Angela Barnard - 4 years ago

    Hello Karen
    San Anton does lend itself to Starry Starry Night! It is absolutely breathtaking, and I’ve now seen it twice as I stumble to the toilet in the dark. Breathtaking! I made a pasta dish with a delicious tuna sauce and lettuce salad. We have a gas cooker surrounded by candle light 🙂 The water supply is limited so we unfortunately cannot offer toilet or water facilities to people simply passing by. It is Donotivo and Ovidio brings us groceries so that we have food to prepare. The gates do get closed when it becomes dark and we don’t have town guests. This facility is only for pilgrims.
    I hope I covered all the questions 🙂
    Angie

Cindy - 4 years ago

Beautiful and well said! Buen Camino!!

    Angela Barnard - 4 years ago

    Thank you Cindy!

Liesbeth - 4 years ago

Well done Angela! San Anton also “called” me in Sept 2014: I picked some berries along the hedge and had a deligtfull evening in the company of an Irishman, Korean, Hungarian, German student and two Swiss ladies! The candle light, cold shower, shared supper and rainy evening created a special camaraderie – Gracias a la Vida!

    Angela Barnard - 4 years ago

    Hi Liesbeth
    It is a very special place. Pity there are no raspberries now for dessert! 🙂
    Angie

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